Elderly man finds son after discovering letter hidden by deceased wife for 60 years

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GRAND RAPIDS, Mich.- An 81-year-old Grand Rapids man found out that he has a son.

The man tried having kids all his life but thought it was a life goal he would never accomplish.

Fifty years ago, the child's mother sent the man a letter, telling him about his 5-year-old son, who is now 61 years old.

It was a letter believed to have been hidden by his wife for decades.

According to WXMI, Tony Trapani, 81, said that after his wife passed away, he was cleaning out one of her old filing cabinets when he came across the letter.

Father and son only met for the first time Sunday, and Trapani said he feels like a new dad.

Samuel Childress, meeting his father for the first time, said he spent his life wondering. "I always asked my mom, I said, 'Well what does he look like?' She said, 'Well, go look in the mirror.'"

Samuel's mother sent the letter in 1959.  "I have a little boy," it reads. "He is five years old now. What I'm trying to say, Tony, is he is your son. He was born November 14th, 1953."

Childress' mother told him that she sent the letter but figured his father was ignoring him.

Trapani claims that his wife intercepted the letter and hid it in a filing cabinet for decades. The couple couldn't conceive a child on their own.

"Why my wife didn't tell me, I don't know. She wanted children. She couldn't have any. She tried and tried," said Trapani.

"He's my full son that I've had my whole life, but why my wife hid that letter is beyond me."

Growing up in Pennsylvania, Childress said, it was his understanding that his father got the letter but didn't want anything to do with him. Meeting his father was just a distant thought.

"Just to know him now is so important to me. It's going to fill that void," he said.

Father and son are now catching up on a lifetime of memories, making the most out of the time they have left, knowing they can't go back in time or dwell on the secret that kept them apart for so long,

The family is also planning to have a paternity test done just to be 100 percent sure.